- Are you tired of relationships that don’t work?
- Do you wonder why some people leave you feeling drained?
- Are you tired of being manipulated by others, or of finding yourself manipulating them?
- Are you ready to end the cycles of manipulation and abuse in your life once and for all?
- Would you like to experience ease and joy in your life?
- Would you like to create relationships that really work?
In this life-changing workshop you’ll learn the simple secrets to becoming your own True Love, and of becoming immune to the abuse, manipulation, and feeding of others. You’ll learn what love really is, and what it takes to finally create truly loving relationships with others.
You’ll learn about energy stealing, about how we have all been taught to feed upon and manipulate the energy of others from the moment we were born, and about how that feeding is at the root of all violence, abuse, and dysfunctional relationships. More than anything, you will learn how to stop the cycle of abuse once and for all. You will learn how to meet your own needs from within yourself so that you don’t need to feed on others, and how, in doing that, you make it impossible for others to feed on you.
If you allow it, this workshop will open doors within you, within your consciousness, that have been closed for a very long time. It will change the very fabric of your life and you will never see the world, or yourself, the same way again.
This powerful three-day workshop uncovers the reasons behind verbal, physical, psychological, psychic and sexual abuse, and is appropriate for anyone whose life has been affected by any kind of abuse or relational dysfunction. It is also helpful for professional facilitators who work with these issues, and for anyone who wishes to understand interpersonal energy dynamics from a New Consciousness perspective.
The workshop experience includes six channeled (see What is Channeling) sessions with Tobias of The Crimson Council through Geoffrey Hoppe, plus a series of activities and discussions led by certified teachers John McCurdy and Mary Beth Shewan, all within a very safe space. Although the channeled messages are prerecorded on video, the energies of Tobias are always present in these workshops and the experience is just as palpably real as if it were a live presentation.
Tobias’ Sexual Energies School: Understanding Physical and Psychic Abuse is an Advanced Studies production of the Crimson Circle, and John and Mary Beth have been trained and certified to facilitate it in a very safe and effective way. More information about this workshop is available at these links:
- Tobias’ Sexual Energies School – The Crimson Circle’s description of this workshop
- It’s Not Really About Sex – An article by Geoffrey Hoppe, channeler for Tobias
You may also contact John and Mary Beth if you have questions, attend a free introductory evening (listed below), or read about John’s experience with this workshop (also below).
The cost for this life-changing workshop is USD $595, and registration is through the Crimson Circle Store. Click a link below for details about a specific class or to register:
If you have specific questions, please feel free to contact us. If you are interested in organizing a class in your area, please let us know. We will travel just about anywhere if there are enough attendees.
Free Introductory Evenings
From time to time we offer a free introductory evening for those who are interested in this workshop and would like to know more about it. This evening includes the full first session from the workshop, along with an exercise in creating a safe space, discussion, and an opportunity to ask whatever questions you may have.
Upcoming free introductory evenings:
- [dates and locations to be announced]
Why We Offer This Workshop
I (John) have attended a lot of workshops in my life. Some of them have been very profound and life-changing experiences, some have been educational, and some, well, let’s just say that they didn’t live up to their promise. When Tobias first created the Sexual Energies School I knew right away that it was something I needed to do, but it took me more than a year–and two failed relationships and a very broken heart–before I was willing to spend that much money on learning to love myself.
As it happened, when things got so bad that I had nothing else to do and I could feel my soul begging me to take this class, I had no money. But there was a class coming to my area and I knew I needed to be there, so I made the decision to attend and informed the teachers of that intention. And, as always happens when you make an unequivocal decision from your heart, the money showed up just in time.
That workshop changed my life more profoundly and deeply than any other workshop I have ever attended, bar none. For the first time in my life I came to truly understand relationships and why they work or (more often) don’t work, and what I could do to bring truly healthy relationships into my life. I learned how we feed on each other’s energy, and how that destroys trust and intimacy in relationship. I learned how seduction and manipulation really work, and why we so often use them, or become the victim of them, without even realizing it.
Most of all I learned how to become my own True Love once and for all, and in that to finally end the cycles of abuse and feeding, of seduction and manipulation. I learned how to love myself first, not in an egotistical and greedy way, but in a way that nurtures me and stops my need to feed on others. I learned how to treat myself the way I would treat my dearest love, and in that I found my freedom.
From that place I’m much harder to seduce or manipulate, because I need nothing from anyone else. From that place it’s easier to be clear with people, because I no longer need to feed on them. And then they are unable to feed on me. From that place it’s easier to stand in my own truth, to let my light shine, because I am fed from within and have less need for the approval of others.
It took a while for all of that to integrate, and to become real for me. But it did, and one morning I woke up and realized that for the very first time in my life I was truly happy being alone. I realized that I would be happy for the rest of my life whether I ever had another relationship or not, and that I would never ever again struggle in a relationship, or allow myself to stay in a relationship that wasn’t both easy and fun. I don’t need to, because more and more I am in love with me.
At that point my life began to change in a new way. It began to smooth out, and I began to feel happier. Oh, all the same problems and challenges were still there, but they didn’t matter as much, and I was happy. And the funny thing about life is that it responds to who you are being, and so all of my life reflects that happiness more and more.
Then one day I opened an email and nearly fell out of my chair, for there on my computer screen was the face that I had been searching for, and longing for, since I was ten years old. I had thought I had imagined it. I had tried to apply that face to several other women along the way, but I always knew deep inside that it wasn’t them. They were old and dear friends from many lifetimes, but they weren’t her, and when I saw that photo I knew her instantly. A few days later Mary Beth and I were having dinner, and we’ve never looked back since.
Now, I cannot tell you that if you take this class you will magically find your soulmate. But then again I can, for what you will discover–what I discovered–is that your real soulmate is you. And when you fall in love with you, when you make yourself your own True Love, then you will attract people into your life who will reflect that back to you. But it will be different.
I would never have been able to get along with Mary Beth, and I probably would not even have recognized her, if I had not first found what I needed within myself. It was me that I had been searching for all my life, not her, and only after I came to terms with that and connected with myself was I able to attract her to me. And she too had gone through her own process of coming home to her.
So, this workshop is not magic, and what you make of it is completely up to you. I can tell you that it changes the lives of almost everyone who takes it, and certainly of everyone who is willing to open up to themselves. It changes who they are, and how they are in the world. I can often spot them, because they are the rare ones who are not feeding on everyone around them. They are the ones who take full ownership of their own lives, and who walk the world with a little extra light in their eyes and a little extra spring in their step.
Are you ready for that to be you?
Before my own workshop was complete it had changed my understanding of life so much that I knew I had to become a teacher, and it is my great honor to be able to present this profound material along with my beloved wife, Mary Beth, who is also a certified teacher for this material. We will be creating other workshops and classes of our own, but this material is so profound and so special that it is our honor to present it to you on behalf of the Crimson Circle.